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At the other end of the spectrum, you’ve got beginners who’ve had sex with a few women, perhaps five or six, or maybe even ten if they’re older, but have no actual skill enabling them to go out into the world and pull new women into their sex life with any predictable reliability.
The only sex they’ve received thus far in their life is the sex that dropped into their laps through women they met organically at their work, through family, school, or their social circles.
Well, yeah, if I had to remain at the beginner stage for years on end, I’d be furious too.) The goal of the beginner is to The Intermediate The intermediate guy is someone who has been working his system for several months and is now getting results.
His results are spotty and time consuming, and he does a lot of things wrong. This is because he can look back over the last several weeks or months and see some results.
If you’ve chosen online dating as your system, get this book. I was beginner for many months, messaging women, going out on dates, dealing with cancels and flakes, dealing with women ghosting me, getting turned down, and wasting a lot of time and money.
The challenge is either with what you’re doing, the type of women you’re approaching, or both.
I’ll give you two examples from when I was an intermediate.
If your system involves one-on-one dates / meetups, get this book. Being a beginner is the worst stage of these three stages, so you want to put in as much work as possible to get through this stage as fast as possible.
(Interesting side note: many PUA haters and angry MGTOW’s are actually men who reached the beginner stage, but never stuck with any system long enough to achieve results, and have resided in the beginner stage for years and years.